¡°PROTECT THE
Text:
1 Corinthian 6:19-20
INTRODUCTION:
1) A step on the right
direction:
Facing the worsening epidemic of teen sex among American youth and its devastating
impact on their life, Jimmy Hester started Christian Sex Education project in
1987, hoping to find some ways to curb the running wild condition. The project
was renamed
2) One way to save a generation: With the promotion of free
life style, free sex, free abortion on demand and a society inching to ¡°free to
do all I want¡± and its permissive trend from government policies to social
acceptance of wild life style. Young people are lost in the whirlpool of
abandonment of moral standard and self-respect. Social problems from teen sex,
teen pregnancy, teenage mothers with babies without fathers or family support.
Dropouts of school, raising children with government support and little hope of
brighter future, creating a massive class of dependent people and potential
bases of crime and violence, just to name a few. Under the grace of God and
wisdom of our youth leaders, FCBC has promoted TLW among our young people for
years.
TEENAGERS NEED TO PROTECT
THEMSELVES:
1) Protect your body: ¡°No one ever yet hated his
own body but nourish and cherish even as the Lord to the church.¡± (Ephesians
5:19) Again, in 1 Cor.
2) Protect your heart: ¡°Above all, guard (protect)
your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.¡± (Proverbs 4:23) Many if not all
young people involved in illicit sexual relationship did so in the name of love
in the heart but to find out soon enough the most painful agony of betrayal.
So, learn to protect your heart from being cheated by yourself, the other
person or the atmosphere you are in. Many people still suffer from scars of
wrong decisions in sexual relationship in their younger years.
3) Protect your family: ¡°If anyone does not provide
(protect) his family, he has denied his faith and is worse than an unbeliever.¡±
(1 Tim 5:8) No one may imagine how much illicit relationship may harm his/her
family now and his/her own future family later in their life by involving in
illicit sexual relationships. It drags parents, siblings in unnecessary trouble
and suffering now and the emotional shadow and pain in your marriage life in
the future. Our actions always affect others particularly in our immediate
family. Keep your life clean for your family.
4) Protect your future: ¡°Do not be deceived. God
cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.¡± (Galatians 6:7) The way we make
choices now will come back to us later in our life. So many young people made
bad choices in their sexual relation-ship bring sure defeat and suffering to
their own lives in later days. Sad things like cutting short of their
education, limit their career ability and opportunity, raising wild children
hard to train or discipline without the support of both parents, complicated
multiple marriages and mixed family, children grow up without proper care of
model parents, just to name a few. If you care about your future, stop messing
up your life now.
PARENTS NEED TO PROTECT
THEIR CHILDREN:
1) Parents need to train their
children:
¡°Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old(er)
he will not turn from it.¡± (Proverbs 22:6) I believe all parents agree with
this advice, but not all parents follow this advice. There are two major
reasons I can see: a) Parents are too busy to train their children, b) Parents
do not train their children on moral values so children know the right way to
grow. Most parents care so much on academic work, sports, music, talents and
language skill of their children, but not the most important thing: their moral
value and character. I hope parents will wake up on this issue.
2) Parents need to be good
examples:
¡°Set example for believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in
purity.¡± (1 Timothy 4:12) Although this quote was meant for a pastor to his
congregation, I believe it is also good for parents: Be good example to your
children in moral value, in faith to God and in purity of life. We all know
children imitate their parents in all these areas. If you really want to see
your kids grow up right and do the right thing, you need to live your life
right so they can see and learn from.
3) Parents need to learn to do
better:
¡°But for you, continue in what you have learned and you have known the
scripture which are able to make you wise.¡± (2 Timothy 3:14-15) Parents learn a
lot how to grow the bodies of their children, but neglect to learn how to grow
the moral value and character their children need the most. Paul says we can
learn from the Bible to be wise parents. You can join Bible class and
discipleship sessions; you can read books, attend training sessions and ask for
help from more successful parents on how to help your kids live a decent life
that will bring honor to God and family and be prepared for their good future.
Have you learned anything to be good parent?
4) Parents need to know their
children:
¡°Eli¡¯s sons were wicked men, they had no regard for the Lord...So he said to
them: Why do you do such things? I hear from all the people about these wicked
deeds of you.¡± (1Samuel
WAYS TO KEEP YOUR BODY
CLEAN: (1
Corinthians
1) The true nature of your body: ¡°Do you not know that your
body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you whom you have received from
God?¡± (
2) The true owner of your body: ¡°You are not your own.¡±
(6:19b) Again in Genesis
3) The true value of your body: ¡°You were bought with a
high price.¡± (
4) The superior goal of your
body:
¡°Therefore honor God with your body.¡± (6:20b) ¡°Honor¡± or ¡°glorify¡± is doxasate, in Greek, means ¡°to praise, to bring
honor, to glorify¡± in this case to God. We can bring honor and glory to God not
just by singing the doxology in a worship service; our best way to bring God
glory and honor is to use our bodies in ways fit God¡¯s command: Be his temple,
holy and acceptable. If we use our bodies in reckless or disgraceful way we
bring shame to the holy name of God.
APPLICATIONS:
1) Take God¡¯s warning seriously: ¡°If anyone destroys God¡¯s
temple, God will destroy him; for God¡¯s temple is sacred, and you are that
temple.¡± (1 Cor. 3:17) No one had ever achieved anything noble or good by
trashing his/her body, the
2)
Stay away from roaring lions: ¡°Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the
devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for to devour.¡± (1 Peter 5:8)
There are many roaring lions in our surroundings, school, bad friends, liberal
media promotion, temptation from people around you, sexually oriented material,
evil peer pressure and even your own desires of the fresh. We need to run away
from any and all these to keep us clean for God and the one he sends us as our
life mate. You can do that.